So you want to win your girlfriend back, huh? Well let me tell you some good news first – getting back together with your ex-girlfriend is not impossible… or in most cases even difficult! Of course every situation is different, but on the whole the same key points can be used no matter what your situation is, or even how the breakup came about. The main thing to remember is that you don’t start doing things wrong now – because one mistake at the beginning could mean the difference between you getting your ex-partner back, or losing them from you life… for good.
What Have You Tried So Far?
If you’re like most guys after a breakup, you have probably tried several things already that you think are the correct steps to take to win your girlfriend back. Don’t feel bad if you have, but some of these “steps” that make sense in your head, could actually be pushing your ex-partner further away from you and reducing the chance of making up with her!
What I mean by this is the most common mistakes when making up with your ex are things like texting your ex, calling her, trying to tell her what a big mistake it was letting the relationship go, and so on. Now these things make sense in your head, right?
So how can they be doing anything but helping you get your girlfriend back?
It All Comes Down To Psychology
Just for now, think of a breakup as being a temporary test – a way for your ex-partner to find out what you’re really made of. The thing that most attracts women in the first place is to feel that you are confident man who will take charge, and always stay strong and positive. So when she breaks up with you and you start turning into a desperate ex-boyfriend – constantly phoning her to try and convince her that she made a mistake letting you go, you are not showing the traits she finds attractive!
Do you understand what I mean? Instead of coming across as a guy that chases his ex, what you want to do is portray that you are strong and confident with the situation. This demonstrates the characteristics that she finds most attractive in a mate, and will help to remind her of why she dated with you in the first place – which will then help you win your girlfriend back!
You’ll Be Driving Her Crazy!
By reminding her that you actually are strong and confident boyfriend, you will now be making her think, “I shouldn’t have broken up with him, he is exactly what I’m looking for!” After all the chasing and questioning that was going on before, you are now coming across as the type of person that your ex is going to miss.
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The next step to take is to make sure that when you do contact her, that you do it in the correct way! The way that will further cement in her mind that this relationship is what she needs and the best thing for her would be to get you back into her life. To avoid the mistakes that most men make in this situation, and win your girlfriend back for good, click here now to download our free report on the best first steps to take when you’re getting your ex-partner back into your life for good!
Best wishes and talk to you soon,